We All Fight Sometimes

We all fight with our partners every now and then. ⁠We scream and they yell back.⁠ Sometimes we say hurtful things that we don't mean.

Sometimes its a pattern of ours. Running. Abandoning ship when things get tough.⁠ Then we try and reconcile: "Did you mean that?⁠"

⁠We usually don't. What we need is a time out.⁠ The evening is then spent in a repair session, and then cuddles.⁠ Things didn’t go exactly as planned, but that’s life, right?⁠

What’s important is that you’re willing to stay when it’s rough. When you’re hurt and want to close down.⁠ When you’re in the middle of 5 planets in retrograde.⁠

⁠I am grateful for the tools that I have learned over the years.⁠ There are times when I have to go through the steps that I give my clients, one by one.⁠

Sex and relationship coaches aren’t above breakdowns either.⁠ We are human. We just have the tools to come out on the other side, stronger. And perhaps a little more humble than the day before.⁠

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